Why I Love Romantic Comedies

13 03 2013

People always ask me why I like romantic comedies so much. Its because even under extraordinary circumstances, the right two people can end up together. – Mindy Kaling

I know it’s cliche. I know it is. But I really love romantic comedies. I like the cheesiness that usually comes with them, the campy flavor, the impossible win at the end for our favorite hero or heroine, and of course, the meet cute.

There are weekends when I’ll just decide instead of going out, I’m going to lay on my sofa and just partake in the wonderment of these stories. I laugh with them, I cry with them, heck – I even try to will the main characters into not making that big mistake I know will make their journey to happiness longer (but of course it wouldn’t be a movie without it).

But it wasn’t until I was watching Mindy Kaling’s TV show, The Mindy Project, the other day that I was finally able to explain why. You see there’s just something about that inevitable happy ending that makes my inner hopeless romantic smile. Some folks may think the happy endings are too unlikely, but I’ve always believed in the power of a connection between the two right people. And regardless of how you feel about them, romantic comedies definitely support that theory.

Let’s think about some of the more famous ones that have come out: in those, you’ve had people end up together despite living in a different country, despite a love-hate relationship at work, despite the fact that the woman was engaged to someone else (who of course, she didn’t truly love), despite onset Alzheimer’s, despite an initial betrayal, despite the fact that they didn’t like each other when they first met, and despite the fact that they thought they were just friends. Talk about extraordinary circumstances, right?!

But the beautiful thing about romantic comedies is that while they let those circumstances play out (kind of how they do in our own lives), you still know that THOSE two people are going to be together before the credits roll. You get to smile at the end and bask in things working out for someone (even if it’s a fictional someone) and also imagine your own happy ending.

I guess what I’m saying is that I finally realized one of the biggest reasons I love romantic comedies is because they give me hope. They remind me to keep believing in happy endings, that despite how things look and despite whatever “extraordinary” circumstances I may encounter, whoever I’m supposed to end up with will still be there.




9 responses

13 03 2013

Mindy Kailing is my girl. Have you read her book, “Is Everyone Hanging Out Without me?” She’s pretty dope.

13 03 2013

Right!? I love her! And I haven’t read the book yet, but I purchased it through Kindle a couple weeks ago – so I certainly plan to in the near future. I’ve heard it’s hilarious!

13 03 2013

It’s a quick read, you’ll blow through it. But she’s very funny and I didn’t know about her behind the scenes grind for a while as a writer. And she completely jacked my heart when she had a photograph of herself in her bed, on her laptop… wait for it… wearing a Howard University shirt. I was like, oh, this is my chick right here.

13 03 2013

Wait, what?!? Now, I’m going to have to read it just so I can see that picture. I love it!

15 07 2013

I LOVE romantic comedies. I’m such a hopeless case.

16 07 2013

They’re so danged enticing, right? lol

16 07 2013

Yes, they are.

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